How to Grow a Man Bun in 6 Easy Steps

Considering joining the man bun camp? Here's how to get there...

Want to know how to grow a man bun successfully? While all those men effortlessly rocking the man bun may make it look like the easiest thing on earth, in reality, however, getting to where they are today was no doubt a lengthy process (pun totally intended) full of bad hair days and man bun-related dramas. We’re pretty sure that even Jared Leto had to endure an awkward phase (or five) while he was growing out that perfectly dishevelled top knot. So yes, the struggle is real, guys. Which is why it’s a decision you shouldn’t take lightly. But if you’re ready to embark on the most important hair journey of your life, read on to find out all you need to know about growing a man bun.


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1. Be Patient as You Grow Your Hair

There’s no such thing as growing a man bun overnight. We’re not gonna lie: it’ll take time. On average, it takes 6 months to get to a good man bun length. However, bear in mind that there are plenty of hair up-styles you can experiment with as your mane begins to grow out. So at least you won’t have to wait forever to tie it back.


2. Start with a Good Base Haircut

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Unless you’re currently rocking a buzz cut, we’re guessing your hair varies at least slightly in length all over. But remember: the shape you start with will determine how your hair grows out. Most cuts make a good base for growing out into a man bun, with the exception of when the sides and back are longer than the top section. That ‘do is likely to grow out into a mullet shape (which is, we’re guessing, exactly the opposite of what you want). For a more sculpted shape and easier maintenance, keep a bit more length on top and take in the back and sides before letting the growth process run its course.


3. Be Prepared for The Awkward Stage(s)

Things will get a little hairy sometimes (sorry, we couldn’t help it). There’ll be so many “awkward stages” that you’re likely to lose track of why exactly you’ve chosen to do this in the first place. From the annoying moment when that part on the top of the ear reaches optimum itchy length, to when the whole thing becomes too long to just do nothing about (but is still too short to tie up into a neat little knot), every day of your man bun-growing journey is a new adventure. But don’t be disheartened. Keep your eyes on the prize and comfort yourself with the fact that once that length is in place, there are a plethora of styles just waiting to be played around with.

Editor’s tip: Not sure what product you should be using during this time? Try the VO5 Extreme Style Gel Wax which is great for controlling short to mid-length haircuts.


4. Keep Your Hair Healthy

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Keeping your hair looking and feeling healthy can help to optimise the growth process. Any unnecessary “stress” you put on your mane will make it more susceptible to breakage, which is exactly what you don’t want when you’ve spent the last six months trying to grow it out. These include rough towel-drying, blow-drying or use of other heat-styling tools. So make sure to be gentle when drying and styling, and work in regular trims (approximately every 8-12 weeks) to keep split ends at bay.


5. Shampoo Less

Don’t panic, we’re not telling you to give up washing your hair completely. But it may be wise to shampoo less on your journey to getting a man bun than you were previously used to. Just think about the fact that every time you wash your tresses with shampoo, you’re not only cleaning your hair. You’re also stripping away all those natural oils that are essential for keeping the scalp healthy and well-moisturised. Instead, make conditioner your new best friend and use it regularly to keep your hair hydrated and strong. If you feel like your hair starts to lose moisture, consider a conditioning treatment to give those locks a boost.

Editor’s tip: When you do lather up, we suggest you use the Toni&Guy Men 2-in-1 Anti-Dandruff Shampoo. This product cleanses and stimulates your scalp and hair, leaving them fresh and prepped for styling.


6. Discovery and Learning is Part of the Process

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Be prepared for surprises. If you’ve never had long locks before, you’ll probably discover things you never knew about your own hair on a weekly (or even daily) basis – from the way it reacts to humidity to the way it curls. Even once you’ve reached your destination, there’s no guarantee that any of this will stop. So ask your barber to recommend the right products, learn how to deal with it and wear that man bun proudly.


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